Do
- Emphasize their security in the relationship
- Be sensitive and soft-spoken in your approach
- Be sincere and genuine
- Behave appropriately and well-mannered
- Limit their risk level
- Promote their creativity
- Appreciate them
- Allow ample time for them to gather their thoughts before
expressing themselves
- Be loyal
- Make sure you mean what you say before you present it to them
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Don't
- Make them feel guilty
- Be rude or abrupt
- Promote too much change
- Expect spontaneity
- Abandon them
- Expect them to bounce back easily or quickly from depression
- Demand perfection (they already expect too much from
themselves)
- Push them too quickly into making decisions
- Expect them to forgive quickly when crossed
- Demand immediate action
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