Do
- Present issues logically
- Demand their attention and respect
- Be direct, brief, and specific in conversation
- Be productive and efficient
- Offer them leadership opportunities
- Verbalize your feelings
- Support their decisive nature
- Promote their intelligent reasoning where appropriate
- Be prepared with facts and figures
- Respect their need to make their own decisions their own
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Don't
- Embarrass them in front of others
- Argue from an emotional standpoint
- Use an authoritarian approach
- Use physical punishments
- Be slow and indecisive
- Expect a personal and intimate relationship
- Attack them personally
- Wait for them to solicit your opinion (they won't)
- Demand constant social interaction (allow for some alone time)
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